Monday, June 10, 2013
Sunday, June 9, 2013
YOU. GET. BACK. UP.
So, you're sitting there, standing there, lying there.. reading this post.. and life has beaten THE CRAP OUT OF YOU. You're crippled, emotionally, and mentally scarred. People have hurt you, sh*t has happened.
You lost your loved one, you lost your job.. Life has kicked you in the genitals, OVER and OVER and OVER and OVVVVER and you just cannot take it, you GIVE UP!
I get it, I DO! I know what that feels like, and so I'm here to tell you, to GET THE HELL BACK UP! If you fall 999 times, you get back up a thousand times. Trust me, I fall a lot too, like literally as well.
But if I fell on Monday, the sun still rose on Tuesday. If I fall on Thursday, the sun will still rise on Friday.. You know why? Because it doesn't matter if you're miserable, the world doesn't care if you're in a good mood or whether you're happy.. the sun will still rise the next day!
And you, my friend, will be left BEHIND. So, sweetheart, GET BACK UP, and do it for YOU!
Let me explain what I mean by that.. If people went around seeking revenge from everyone who hurt them, the world would have been a terrible place. Well, worse than what it already is. Right?
We'd all be bombing places, back stabbing people, we'd be crappy friends, we'd be players.. BUT NO!
Cause two wrongs do not make a right!
If someone asked me whether I work hard/ slog my ass/ try to succeed because I want to prove all those people wrong, all those people who hurt me, all those people who thought I couldn't do it.. and make them feel stupid? Honestly, the answer is.. NO! My success shouldn't be driven by the need to make other people feel stupid. What would I accomplish by that? But you know what my success is driven by? The need to prove MYSELF wrong! Because back in the day, people DID hurt me, people DID make me feel miserable, but do I want to prove them wrong? NO!
I want to prove myself wrong, cause for a moment, I DID feel worthless, I DID feel like I'm not good enough. So, I want to prove THAT person wrong. My old, miserable self wrong.
I don't need to define my goals by proving other people wrong and neither do YOU.
So don't keep in mind all the people that hurt you, to seek revenge on them. NO! Just remember how they made you FEEL, and prove THAT wrong.
Cause, you're better than that. And if along the way, some people feel stupid..
Well, SO BE IT!
So I just want to tell you, sh*t happens in life, people fall, there's ups and downs, you may feel worthless and pathetic right now.. You may have given up.. But, I'm here to tell you to GET. BACK. UP! Do it for yourself.
You're beautiful, you can do it, GET BACK UP! YOU! YOU! GET. BACK. UP. And prove to yourself that you're the best, you're awesomesauce, you're a superhero! Hell yeah!
P.S. YOU. ARE. DAMN. FINE. =)
*Chest bumps*
S
You lost your loved one, you lost your job.. Life has kicked you in the genitals, OVER and OVER and OVER and OVVVVER and you just cannot take it, you GIVE UP!
I get it, I DO! I know what that feels like, and so I'm here to tell you, to GET THE HELL BACK UP! If you fall 999 times, you get back up a thousand times. Trust me, I fall a lot too, like literally as well.
But if I fell on Monday, the sun still rose on Tuesday. If I fall on Thursday, the sun will still rise on Friday.. You know why? Because it doesn't matter if you're miserable, the world doesn't care if you're in a good mood or whether you're happy.. the sun will still rise the next day!
And you, my friend, will be left BEHIND. So, sweetheart, GET BACK UP, and do it for YOU!
Let me explain what I mean by that.. If people went around seeking revenge from everyone who hurt them, the world would have been a terrible place. Well, worse than what it already is. Right?
We'd all be bombing places, back stabbing people, we'd be crappy friends, we'd be players.. BUT NO!
Cause two wrongs do not make a right!
If someone asked me whether I work hard/ slog my ass/ try to succeed because I want to prove all those people wrong, all those people who hurt me, all those people who thought I couldn't do it.. and make them feel stupid? Honestly, the answer is.. NO! My success shouldn't be driven by the need to make other people feel stupid. What would I accomplish by that? But you know what my success is driven by? The need to prove MYSELF wrong! Because back in the day, people DID hurt me, people DID make me feel miserable, but do I want to prove them wrong? NO!
I want to prove myself wrong, cause for a moment, I DID feel worthless, I DID feel like I'm not good enough. So, I want to prove THAT person wrong. My old, miserable self wrong.
I don't need to define my goals by proving other people wrong and neither do YOU.
So don't keep in mind all the people that hurt you, to seek revenge on them. NO! Just remember how they made you FEEL, and prove THAT wrong.
Cause, you're better than that. And if along the way, some people feel stupid..
Well, SO BE IT!
So I just want to tell you, sh*t happens in life, people fall, there's ups and downs, you may feel worthless and pathetic right now.. You may have given up.. But, I'm here to tell you to GET. BACK. UP! Do it for yourself.
You're beautiful, you can do it, GET BACK UP! YOU! YOU! GET. BACK. UP. And prove to yourself that you're the best, you're awesomesauce, you're a superhero! Hell yeah!
By me
P.S. YOU. ARE. DAMN. FINE. =)
*Chest bumps*
S
Saturday, April 6, 2013
How To Get Your Sh*t Together.
So, before I start, let me clarify that I'm no wise, spiritual leader and all BUT, I am a person completely obsessed with smiles, love and happy people. So you know, you decide if you trust my credentials. Kay? Ain't nobody forcing you, my friend. To each their own.
NUMBER 1.
Positive Environment:
Duh! It's a no-brainer. Surround yourself with positive people. Let's put your surrounding in a classroom yea? Two-timing boyfriend/girlfriend- DISMISS! That hot mess of a girl who gossips all the time? Yes, DISMISS! One of your parents who always puts you down and refuses to support you, ya DIS.. No, can't do that, but seat 'em on the backbench.
Happy people. Nice people. Funny lads. Yes, yes, yes, FRONT ROW.
Your iPod, your pets, inspiring blogs, .. A++
Ryan Gosling/Mila Kunis's video/gif's? ON THE PROJECTOR!
It's no rocket science, is it?
NUMBER 2.
Send Out Good Vibes:
A.k.a. QUIT BEING A DOUCHEBAG!
You know when you're having a bad day and you feel like the universe is against you and it's conspiring to make you feel the way you feel? That's just shit load of crap, dude. The universe doesn't give a shit. It's not plotting against you. You're no Harry Potter or Dumbledore or Batman or Peter Parker! Ain't nobody got time for that, man.
You wanna have a good day, act like it? If you're gonna be all obnoxious and trolling and hating on people and things all the time, you think people are gonna treat you well? You're a dummy.
You my friend, are putting all your energy, focus and attention on negativity throughout your day. So guess what you're gonna recognize..
That "fat guy"
That "lame girl"
That "scratch on his car"
That "pimple on her face"
That "third world phone your friend uses"
It's a lot easier and better to send out good vibes.
Compliment someone.
Show gratitude.
Message an old friend.
Hug your friends/family.
You know what.. Go right now, grab a friend/family/pet and hug him/her right now. Go! Do it.
If you're alone, just wrap your arms around yourself! Tada! It ain't stupid. Love yourself! Be Sheila!
NUMBER 3:
Befriend Yourself:
The highest knowledge you can have, is the knowledge of yourself. Fact! Be in tune with your self. You tell people you're this, you're that, you're the shit.. you're just convincing yourself into believing it, irrespective of the fact that you're not really the shit. Honestly mate, you may instagram how much ever you want, but when you look at yourself, there ain't no filters there! REALITY CHECK!
Are you positive? Negative? Mean? Selfish? Innocent? Hater? Obnoxious?
Figure it out. And then try to change what you're willing to and what you CAN. The rest of what you can't change, learn to accept it.Cause sweetheart, how will you ever be able to fight the negativity outside, when there are wars being fought within you? You need to deal! =)
NUMBER 4:
Have purpose:
Don't just get by in life. Have goals. Stand against mediocrity. Accomplish things. Set tiny tasks for yourself. Nothing says HELL YEAH like that feeling of having accomplished something you wanted to! Life is an effin privilege. Treat it that way.
Want abs?Want good grades?Jobs?
Whatever it is, babbey.. GET OUT AND GET IT!
In other words, don't be a Bhojpuri movie.. uhn-uhn.. Be Harry Potter, The Dark Knight..
Be cool like that!
NUMBER 5:
LOL:
That's right, bitches! Laugh in the face of misery. Laugh it off, out loud. Or a giggle or two!
Don't take life too seriously. Well, yes, sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do! But otherwise, choose your battles, my friend!
'Your friend didn't attend your birthday party?'
- pffft.. They did every other year..So whaaa'?
'Mommy yelled at you?'
- Well, she carried you in her womb for 9 months, which seemed like a million to her, got stretch marks because you kept growing inside of her like Pinocchio's nose.
So, SHAAAAAAT UP!
'That guy called you a sl*t?'
- Maybe you just reminded him of his sister. See what I did there? See?
To hell with him! Don't take load. Him calling you names, doesn't turn you into one.
Take it easy-peasy, lemon-squeezy! Or something else that rhymes. :-/
So, these were all the lessons I had to share with you. And maybe you're not a person who believes in sending out good vibes. That's just a decision you make. Similarly, attracting positivity is also a decision you make. So really, the only thing standing between you and positivity/good things is.. YOU!
Choose wisely.
P.S. Smile like you mean it. Cause you is looking swag when you is smiling.
Peace out,
S
NUMBER 1.
Positive Environment:
Duh! It's a no-brainer. Surround yourself with positive people. Let's put your surrounding in a classroom yea? Two-timing boyfriend/girlfriend- DISMISS! That hot mess of a girl who gossips all the time? Yes, DISMISS! One of your parents who always puts you down and refuses to support you, ya DIS.. No, can't do that, but seat 'em on the backbench.
Happy people. Nice people. Funny lads. Yes, yes, yes, FRONT ROW.
Your iPod, your pets, inspiring blogs, .. A++
Ryan Gosling/Mila Kunis's video/gif's? ON THE PROJECTOR!
It's no rocket science, is it?
NUMBER 2.
Send Out Good Vibes:
A.k.a. QUIT BEING A DOUCHEBAG!
You know when you're having a bad day and you feel like the universe is against you and it's conspiring to make you feel the way you feel? That's just shit load of crap, dude. The universe doesn't give a shit. It's not plotting against you. You're no Harry Potter or Dumbledore or Batman or Peter Parker! Ain't nobody got time for that, man.
You wanna have a good day, act like it? If you're gonna be all obnoxious and trolling and hating on people and things all the time, you think people are gonna treat you well? You're a dummy.
You my friend, are putting all your energy, focus and attention on negativity throughout your day. So guess what you're gonna recognize..
That "fat guy"
That "lame girl"
That "scratch on his car"
That "pimple on her face"
That "third world phone your friend uses"
It's a lot easier and better to send out good vibes.
Compliment someone.
Show gratitude.
Message an old friend.
Hug your friends/family.
You know what.. Go right now, grab a friend/family/pet and hug him/her right now. Go! Do it.
If you're alone, just wrap your arms around yourself! Tada! It ain't stupid. Love yourself! Be Sheila!
NUMBER 3:
Befriend Yourself:
The highest knowledge you can have, is the knowledge of yourself. Fact! Be in tune with your self. You tell people you're this, you're that, you're the shit.. you're just convincing yourself into believing it, irrespective of the fact that you're not really the shit. Honestly mate, you may instagram how much ever you want, but when you look at yourself, there ain't no filters there! REALITY CHECK!
Are you positive? Negative? Mean? Selfish? Innocent? Hater? Obnoxious?
Figure it out. And then try to change what you're willing to and what you CAN. The rest of what you can't change, learn to accept it.Cause sweetheart, how will you ever be able to fight the negativity outside, when there are wars being fought within you? You need to deal! =)
NUMBER 4:
Have purpose:
Don't just get by in life. Have goals. Stand against mediocrity. Accomplish things. Set tiny tasks for yourself. Nothing says HELL YEAH like that feeling of having accomplished something you wanted to! Life is an effin privilege. Treat it that way.
Want abs?Want good grades?Jobs?
Whatever it is, babbey.. GET OUT AND GET IT!
In other words, don't be a Bhojpuri movie.. uhn-uhn.. Be Harry Potter, The Dark Knight..
Be cool like that!
NUMBER 5:
LOL:
That's right, bitches! Laugh in the face of misery. Laugh it off, out loud. Or a giggle or two!
Don't take life too seriously. Well, yes, sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do! But otherwise, choose your battles, my friend!
'Your friend didn't attend your birthday party?'
- pffft.. They did every other year..So whaaa'?
'Mommy yelled at you?'
- Well, she carried you in her womb for 9 months, which seemed like a million to her, got stretch marks because you kept growing inside of her like Pinocchio's nose.
So, SHAAAAAAT UP!
'That guy called you a sl*t?'
- Maybe you just reminded him of his sister. See what I did there? See?
To hell with him! Don't take load. Him calling you names, doesn't turn you into one.
Take it easy-peasy, lemon-squeezy! Or something else that rhymes. :-/
So, these were all the lessons I had to share with you. And maybe you're not a person who believes in sending out good vibes. That's just a decision you make. Similarly, attracting positivity is also a decision you make. So really, the only thing standing between you and positivity/good things is.. YOU!
Choose wisely.
P.S. Smile like you mean it. Cause you is looking swag when you is smiling.
Peace out,
S
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